The seemingly "cool girl" Virgo can isolate herself from the world, as she was born with high walls of protection. Take your time. Approach with caution.
Don't read too much into his sarcasm. His witty, sometimes seemingly biting remarks are not meant to hurt. Chances are she will fall in love with you if you can see past her barriers and laugh at her sarcasm and responses, even if it is at your expense.
One piece of advice she doesn't want you to know: deep inside her self-imposed walls she is a big softie. Sometimes she acts on instinct to protect herself.
Virgo women are very practical, detail-oriented, and a bit of a perfectionist. She may seem intimidating, even cold, but she is just being cautious. She has so much love to give and so much to share, but she has to get there in her own time.
He does not like small talk. Appeal to his intellect and knowledge or be prepared for him not to respond to your advances.
Like Leo, the Virgo woman is able to forgive but is very unlikely to forget. This is mainly due to her fear of love, and once she lets you in she feels exposed. Letting you in is not easy for a Virgo. Do not exploit this privilege.
Making an effort with her will not go unnoticed. She will appreciate every detail and in return she will give you everything and put all her effort into the relationship. It is important to remember that she exerts the same effort in all areas of her life, friends, career and family. Don't try to compete with any of them.
Give her time to relax and feel comfortable in your intimacy. She is sensual and sexual, but push her for anything and watch her walk out the door and leave. Massage her, stroke her hair, let her seduce you with these little things and watch her go from being a good girl to a sexual goddess.
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