We all wonder about our exes, even if only for a short period of time and how they feel about the break up no matter who initiated it. Are they sad? Mad? Angry? In pain? Happy? Sometimes we wonder if we've had any kind of effect on them, at least that's what it sounds like to me.
A lot of it depends on their personality as well. Do they hide their emotions? Do they cover up what they feel or do they let people see their true selves? That's where astrology and signs can come into play.
For example, you have an Aries man who doesn't like to lose at anything, ever. And to be honest, it doesn't matter who broke up with whom because an Aries will see it as a loss or a failure no matter what. On the other hand, a Libra man will take a while to get over the break-up and not because of the emotional involvement he may have had or invested in the relationship. But because it reveals the negative traits he possesses behind the mask he wears all the time.
If you're wondering about your ex and what he or she is doing, how he or she was in the relationship and how he or she is handling the separation (or not handling it), read on!
Virgo ex-boyfriend (23 August to 22 September)
You may have thought that someone hated you in the past, but nothing comes close to the Virgo male's hatred for you. He will throw everything you have said in your face and try to make you feel bad or weak. He has no regard for your feelings or intentions... he has a one-track mind when it comes to break-ups. The Virgo man who once believed you could be something better for yourself now feels there is a small chance you might actually succeed in doing something to improve yourself.
He is still passionate about the progress you are making towards your goals or lack of them. The Virgo man will not be enthusiastic about your successes, but if he knows you are failing at something, he will be delighted. On the positive side, your relationship with the Virgo male may have taught you a lot about yourself and relationships, as well as how to be a stronger person because of it.
You will miss the annoying qualities because, being as perceptive as you are, you knew he was hiding his insecurities. You won't miss having to break down endless walls because you realised that those defensive walls were never fully broken down. You've saved yourself a lot of energy and stress!
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