We all wonder about our exes, even if only for a short period of time and how they feel about the break up no matter who initiated it. Are they sad? Mad? Angry? In pain? Happy? Sometimes we wonder if we've had any kind of effect on them, at least that's what it sounds like to me.
A lot of it depends on their personality as well. Do they hide their emotions? Do they cover up what they feel or do they let people see their true selves? That is where astrology and signs can come into play.
For example, you have an Aries man who doesn't like to lose at anything, ever. And to be honest, it doesn't matter who broke up with whom because an Aries will see it as a loss or a failure no matter what. On the other hand, a Libra man will take a while to get over the break-up and not because of the emotional involvement he may have had or invested in the relationship. But because it reveals the negative traits he possesses behind the mask he wears all the time.
If you're wondering about your ex and what he or she is doing, how he or she was in the relationship and how he or she is handling the separation (or not handling it), read on!
Cancer ex-boyfriend (June 21-July 22)
One of the things he probably had trouble accepting in the relationship was the Cancer man's devotion to his friends and family. He wouldn't understand why on earth you would get upset if he spent an entire evening with her friend while she cried on his shoulder over a break-up. He was often confused as to why you would get upset about things that were totally normal to get upset about. While the Cancer man can be sentimental and sensitive as is well known, he can also be the opposite and be very cruel to his exes.
The Cancer male may bring his tender, sweet characteristics to the breach, but not for the reasons you might think. This is a manipulative tactic to gain his continued loyalty while protecting himself from engaging in any unwanted confrontation.
You will miss his fun-loving way of life, as well as his ability to make you feel safe, comfortable and protected. You will miss his classic romantic skills and how he used to make you feel like the only person in the room. You definitely won't miss his clinginess. You also won't miss how difficult it was to talk to the Cancer man as he was defensive most of the time.
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