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Don't date an Aries woman unless you can do these 18 things

This is what you should keep in mind if you want to be in a relationship with an Aries woman.... , 2020-05-18

1. Accept their audacity

Whether it's their way of speaking or their self-confidence, Aries are known to be the bravest sign of the zodiac. They will broadcast their bravery through all areas of life, including relationships. She will do anything to make the two of you work, including agreeing to reasonable compromises. No matter how dark or bumpy the road, she will brave a storm to get to you. This also goes for the way she sees herself in society. She does not go with the flow. If someone tries to put her in a box, she will come out of it and show that she is nothing like what you have locked her in. She has her own identity, her own history, and she is not ashamed of it. Don't try to make her fit your idea of perfection. Accept her as she is, sit back and enjoy the magic unapologetically.


2. Accept their honesty and openness.

Because she will say whatever is on her mind. She can sometimes be inconsiderate of others' feelings, but always apologises if she knows she has offended someone. It is rare that she meets someone who can handle her opinion and not take it personally. Patiently calls her out on her unintentional rudeness.


3. Let go of your past and look beyond your imperfections...

Because she already has. When it comes to anything negative that happens in her life, she processes them quickly and efficiently, and then lets them go. She doesn't hold on to the guilt of the bad decisions she has made, and she doesn't think about them all the time. She recognises that all humans have faults and flaws, including you, but she doesn't focus on the bad. She thrives on loving the good in herself and others.


4. Be adventurous with her...

She is not only depressed by adventures, but also by spontaneous and impulsive adventures. Either she seeks them out, or they find her, or she turns random outings into adventures. It's all about creating memories. She is the one with the crazy ideas, the involuntary life of the party, the discoverer of the unknown. Be willing to experience life with her, or at least give her the space she needs to experience it. You can encourage her passion from a distance, but never try to stop her from living her daily life to the fullest. The Aries hates to be bored, or better yet, the word "bored" does not exist in their vocabulary. She always wants to change, grow and mature. And everything is an adventure for her.


5. Accept your independence

He doesn't need you, he accepts you as part of his life. He is independent. If you can't respect that, then you won't last long. You may not hear from her for a couple of hours, but that doesn't mean she doesn't want to talk to you. You may not always see her as often as you want to, but that doesn't mean she's not interested in you. Don't be afraid to be honest with her and let her know that you need some time in her presence. She appreciates it when you are direct with your needs and want to be close to her. And she will always make time for you. Aries knows who and how to prioritise.


6. Handles a lot of questions

He wants to know you, what you like, why you like it, what you want to do, why you want to do it, etc.


7. Accept his big heart

Aries not only love to love, but they are also incredibly forgiving. She has nothing against you. She is good at making amends. She doesn't let things fester. She wants to talk about it and fix any problems right away. She gives you lots of chances (sometimes too many - don't take advantage of this!). She may not always go back to being touchy-feely after you've said something hurtful, but she processes quickly and doesn't let her anger last long. She has already let you into her mind and heart, and that is where you will always stay.


He notices and loves the small and imperfect things in life. She cares about what others may find unattractive. She will be fascinated by small wonders and will make you stop and enjoy them with her.


8. Being rather cheesy (or at least loving it when it is).

She's all about creating and capturing memories, so say hello to cute couple photos, hand holding, lots of PDA, random kisses, thigh squeezes and smiles from across the room. She's proud to be with you and won't care if people know it and see it through her actions.


9. Be very patient...

Because it isn't. #balance


10. Appreciate your deep thinking

Aries are far from superficial. They may seem to be always living in the moment, but that does not mean that their brain is at rest while their body is alive. She is always thinking, always analysing, always wondering, always dreaming. Not only is she a great conversationalist, but you will be surprised by the way she talks. She brings a new perspective on life. Don't be surprised if the way you begin to see things changes after spending time with her.


11. Dealing with reluctance

Because Aries is the first cheeky one to wear trousers.


12. Brave the fire...

Because he is fiery. Not only because fire is her element, but because her personality is all flames and excitement. She is fearless. And she will always leave you feeling more, becoming more, and wanting more.


13. Be willing to pay attention

She is sure of her own skin, of her own thoughts, of who she is as a person, but don't let that fool you. She needs your eyes on her and she needs your words of affirmation. She doesn't want to be the centre of everyone's attention. She just needs to know that she is the centre of your attention.


14. Appreciates their protection

No, Aries is far from the jealous type, but they are protective of themselves and what they consider their own. She cares for the people she cares about. She is careful with people's hearts and tries to handle everything with care, be it words, songs, writings or her lover's hand.


15. Love the soft and appreciate the hard

Aries are hopeful romantics. Not only does she want a unique love story, but she also knows that her vulnerability to find love can backfire and burn her out. However, this doesn't make her stronger because what doesn't kill makes her stronger. She can handle a lot - both physically and emotionally - and this will be something you will admire most about her. She is the kind of person who will carry others, even if she has her own problems in life. And even when she seems the toughest, there will be rare moments when her walls come down completely. You'll see her vulnerable and call it weakness. You'll see her break down and she'll call it a flaw. But when you see this side of her that very few people - if any - get to see, you will realise that there is no one more beautiful.


16. Be prepared for commitment

Yes, there is the dating stage, but an Aries woman knows what she wants and if she looks for it and finds it in you, then she will want to have an intentional relationship thereafter. If you chicken out or make stupid excuses (and yes, "we haven't known each other for a long time" counts), then you will lose her.


17. Be right with passion

Because it will chase you, love you, kiss you, get angry with you, hug you, talk to you, write about you... all with an immense charge of passion. For some, it can be suffocating. For others, it may be just what they need to feel truly cared for. Find out beforehand what kind of person you are.


18. Prepare to fall in love with her

Because I promise it can easily happen, and when it does, you won't regret it.


But know that if you let her go, you will never forget her.

I am Alegsa

I have been writing horoscope and self-help articles professionally for over 20 years.

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